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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 4 n half years now n everything was good to begin with. We have been through a lot as well and still stuck ny each other. Now, it feels like I'm.just a cook,cleaner and dog walker.I do everything in the house and go to college 3 days a week. My boyfriend works 5 days a week.We used to be so good together but now we hardly say a thing to each other. When we are in the house together, he plays his game console and I get bored I end up on the net doing nothing. He used to show me lots of attention, cuddle me all th time, tell me he loves me. Now he barely even looks at me and I have to make the first move all the time. I have tried talking to him but he says everything is fine. I've told him how I feel and things get better for a few days then goes back to being the same.A friend of mine has shown a lot of interest in me and has done for a long time, which I'm loving, who wouldn't! He's good looking but I can't help feeling guilty about enjoying this attention. My friend has made advances towards me but I've always said no but now I'm thinking about it as I'm not getting attention from my boyfriend. Do I throw away 4 and half years of hard work for this friend? Its not for definate that I will have a relationship with my friend but some attention seems so good!! I'm so confused!
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (11 January 2010):
 Your is a story of a young. But, it is not exclusively you, who suffer such evasion. Indifferent. Dullness. Your statement can be the statement of any any married couple, around the world. Please read your own statement, ...'.
."When we are in the house together, he plays his game console and I get bored I end up on the net doing nothing. "
I wish to give you some searching work on 'net', which solve your problem. " Tantra' is the word, give this to 'Google search engine', and you will have lot of web pages in reply to this word 'tantra'. Ask, your bf to share your searching, of course after make few preliminary work.
This knowledge of tantra will make your whole life like a heaven. I am living in such heaven, at my 59 years leading life, you will also have such life.
Few statement about tantra. Tantra is word, belong to Indian sanskrit language. But, it means in English language as 'PHALLIC WORSHIP'. Many western philosophers has wrote volumes on this subject. It is entirely different from Sexology, however it deal with 'sex-organ.'...just go on studying...and then decide about your other friend.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 January 2010):
Your relationship does sound dead. Even when you've spoken to him he hasn't changed. So I think perhaps you need to look closely at whether you want to continue with it. As for your friend, date him if you do split, but take it slow. You dont' want to jump into something.
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