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writes: Can one cultivate sexual attraction? If possible what steps need be taken and what are the odds of a positive outcome? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (12 January 2010):
You want to know if you can MAKE someone be sexually attracted to you?
The answer is no.
If there was a way to do it then there would be a lot less broken hearts in the world.
So short of discovering witchcraft you just have to move on from this girl and find someone new.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, texasgal +, writes (12 January 2010):
You can cultivate healthy self-esteem, confidence, a healthy sense of humor, interest in other people. Be interesting yourself, develop your own interests. Become a good friend. Be a good conversationalist. Take good care of yourself. These traits will make you more attractive, maybe first as a friend, then see what follows. You can't force sex appeal; it's only an illusion anyway. Good luck!
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