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Can one cultivate a sexual attraction?

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Question - (11 January 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2010)
A male South Africa age 41-50, *pear writes:

Can one cultivate sexual attraction? If possible what steps need be taken and what are the odds of a positive outcome?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2010):

You want to know if you can MAKE someone be sexually attracted to you?

The answer is no.

If there was a way to do it then there would be a lot less broken hearts in the world.

So short of discovering witchcraft you just have to move on from this girl and find someone new.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, texasgal United States +, writes (12 January 2010):

You can cultivate healthy self-esteem, confidence, a healthy sense of humor, interest in other people. Be interesting yourself, develop your own interests. Become a good friend. Be a good conversationalist. Take good care of yourself. These traits will make you more attractive, maybe first as a friend, then see what follows. You can't force sex appeal; it's only an illusion anyway. Good luck!

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