A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a serious problem. I had a 4 year relationship with Alex and we were extremely close but I started having worries that I was too young and wanted to have a small break to experience more things. That happened 3 years ago and Alex and I never lost contact. We tried to get back together numerous times but it didnt work out as he was scared to commit to me again coz he says I really hurt him. In the mean while we both created other relationships; I have been going out with a guy for more than a year and has been going out with a girl for more than 9 months. Despite than I felt that I really wanted to be with him, so 6 months ago I started trying to get him back but he was rejecting me by saying that he really wanted to be with me but he was scared. I know its wrong that I was trying to get him back while I was seing someone else, but I could brak up with Barry (my current boyfrined) as I got really atached to him as well. Now Alex has come to me saying he wants to be with me and instead of being happy I paniced and said I need to think about it. The thing is that things are really going well with Barry and I feel strongly for him. However, I have been wanting to get back with Alex for so long and never imagined that I would be turning him down. I am also feeling extremely guilty as any desicion I make affects other people. I am really confused and I dont know what to choose. I feel that any desicion I take now, I might regret later.
View related questions:
get back together Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): stop playing games with Alex you hurt him once, stop it NOW.
|
