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writes:i have been attracted to my science teacher for three years now, but never thought he was interested in me; we've always been close, but only in a friendly way. recently, though, we started texting and it escalated into him telling me how he truely feels about me and i about him. he told me he's never met any one like me, that i'm what helps him get through the day. the only problem is...he's 33, married, has two small children, and i'm only 17 (will be 18 in four months). we decided to meet up the other night and ended up making out for two hours in a dark parking lot. he told me he plans to leave his wife (they have been unhappy for several years) and, though he doesn't want to hold me back, he wants to be with me and only me. i am seriously falling for him, but i keep thinking about everything wrong with this situation. should i break things off with him? should i continue seeing him secretly? I am so confused...any advice from people who are or have been in this situation would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, HeskimaCerita  +, writes (11 January 2010):
If he's unhappy being with his wife, he should leave her whether there's another woman or not. I think you should try to limit your contact with him until the divorce papers are signed. Then you'll know he's for real.
I think you should ask to talk to him and explain that you shouldn't see eachother when he's married. If he backs off after that, and doesn't do anything about the marriage, you can leave knowing that he's a skeeze. If he does leave his wife though, you'll need to talk a lot. Just remember that you're not "the other woman." He's not happy in that relationship, but he shouldn't treat you like that. He's still a married man, whether he's happy or not.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (11 January 2010):
 WOW! ok this is interesting, well first the age diffrence is to mutch he cant even keep his wife happy how long do you think it will work out with you. this guy is an idiot, your almost 18 so legaly he could probably get away with it but oh what about those pesky morals.
you need to be with some one your one age or atleast closer to your age cuse yeah 17 yr old HS boys really wont compare to this guy im sure, but hes in a completly diffrent stage of life your young probably college bound then what.
be smart about this do this guy a huge favor and break it off if he divorces his wife and in two years you still feel the same way well maybe then something can happen,
but i think he needs to call off this affair and get things straight with his wife hes a weak man is that what you really want he will be cheating on you. ughhh
to be honest if he wasnt married id say go for it if you dont care about the age diffrence i dont but ughh hes married he goes home to the mother of his chilldren everyday and lies to her and you kno this so what kind of person does that make you.
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reader, justinthyme1954 +, writes (11 January 2010):
 I agree its not a good idea. I know you don't think you are being taken advantage of, but your are. He is the adult and he should not be putting you in a awkward and compromising situation. Do you and him a favor and break off the relationship and do not continue. If you don't it will bring pain and suffering to you and to him and his family.
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reader, chuck123  +, writes (11 January 2010):
IAM GONNA TALK TO YOU AS A BIG BROTHER
as a man iam telling; he loves he's family, ok. if you thinking relationship forget it thts not gonna happen. but if you are down for a let me bang you until i get tired of you(booty call) then you are in the right place.he's saying all that because he wants some. you are only seventeen! is this how you wanna start out?! PULL THE PLUG RIGHT NOW...if that family ever breaks up, i do not want you to be the reason why, OK DARLIN?
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