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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Ok so i have been with my boyfriend almost a year and half. I have always been sensitive in this relationship and he has always been the total opposite. When i get upset he gets angry and always wants to break up.he tells me he doesnt want to but its the best solution. I always tell him to not give up and to try something for once. We have gone through so much and its not easy to just give up. I want advice on how to stop being so sensitive. I dont want to et hutt so easily and i hate how i am. Theres so much more but i shoyld first start here. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Victoria Emily +, writes (11 January 2010):
You should not hate yourself for this! At the end of the day you can't change who you are, maybe your boyfriend should be more understanding. I sort of understand you as I have been with my boyfriend for three years and he still dousn't know how to handle me when I am upset!
Maybe you should both sit down and talk to each other in turn, both agree not to shout or argue just listen! Tell him how you have been feeling. If he can't be bothered to do so or if he dousn't care, then u deserve better and should move on.
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