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writes:i have been dating this girl for a few months now and ive loved her for along time and she has loved me for along time to a few years i think like 8 or 9 years and i know shes had sex with other people before we got together anyway i know it souldnt bother me but it makes me really sad to think about it but i cant help it. i was just wondering if i should talk to her about it or leave it alone? but if i did talk to her i wouldnt know how to start or what to say. if anyone could help me out i would be verry greatful Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 You should just leave it alone. The past is always a touchy subject and all that really matters is that she is with you now. No matter what her past was like it still allowed you two to get together.
If you don't find the whore comment offensive I do. Just because a girl has had a few sexual partners in her life does not make her a whore.
Follow your heart and if it leads you to her then that is what is meant to be in the present and future with the past kept in the past.
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