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writes:Im 17 guy n im in love with my best freind whos also a guy but dosnt no im gay but has suspitions i dnt no wat to do at all i tell him i love him but he thinks im messin we spend every day togeather n i flirt n cuddle n watch him sleep n cuddle him wilst he sleeps n sumtimes he comes closer n sum tyms he asks me wat im doin i get mixed signals every time n dont no wat to do i crnt tell him because hel tel people i dnt want to no im confused but i love him and the longer i hold it in the more i want to b with him n i get bad like smellin him n everythin i just dnt no wat to do can sum 1 help me please x
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reader, Holli' +, writes (12 January 2010):
 If you are attracted to guys, then that is who you are maby you should mension that you are gay, before telling him how much you love him. Im sure he wont tell anyone If you dont want him to. Don't try to avoid telling him it will just make you feel worse. Tell Him.
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reader, AvgGuy1  +, writes (11 January 2010):
 It's really hard to advise on these types of situations because so much depends on your history between you two. Given what you've written I would guess that either your friend isn't sure of his orientation yet, or he's bi. High School and into college is when we all figure out whether we're straight/gay/bi whatever. The thing is... if you REALLY REALLY value this person and don't want to lose them. Don't push it. If he does reciprocate your affections (cuddles etc)... you might be able to continue on to something more intimate but you should be very cautious about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): well maybe fist you would want to start off by telling him your gay if he is really your friend he will understand and it wouldnt matter to him and if e takes that well then tell him you love him maybe he feels the same who knows eather way you can only hide those kind of feelings for so long before you do something that will really give it away how you feel about him but you will never know unless you try
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