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writes:When i was talking to my boyfriend about us having sex ONE DAY not anytime soon..and he brought up the fact he wanted it to be the most special thing for me and i couldnt say the same since he is not a virgin...i hurts i know i have talked about this in another question but i seriously need someone to really help...i will NOT break up with him i just need someone to understand and tell me if i should come out and tell him i feel upset about it or keep it to myselfhonestly need some help with this Reply to this Question
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reader, Holli'  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 Is he really the one for you, you are only young, and losing your virginity is something special, I would talk to him about it, get it of your chest, out in the open. On the other hand 15 is a little younge to have sex at you have your whole life ahead of you why not lose it to someone special, who hasn't lost theirs either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): Obviously if it is making you upset and if it affects your relationship you should tell him. Just don't make it into too big of a deal because remember he can't change what was in the past even if he also regrets it.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (11 January 2010):
 well you can tell him if you want just because hes not a virgin doesnt mean it wont be special for him his first time could have been horrible, lol it couldnt have been so good obviously hes not still with her.
LOOK im a guy i cant tell you the fact your wifully going to have sex with him makes it special lol dont sweat it have fun and be safe use a condom and all that good stuff
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reader, chuck123  +, writes (11 January 2010):
don't be a girl, be woman n tell him (we guys like women who tell us what's up) and trust me both of you will be laughing about it after you tell him.
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