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writes:ok me and my gf have been togther for 4 years and our sex life is pretty much nonexsitent because she says my penis is to big and it hurts her everytime we have sex. Now im only 21 and shes 20 shouldnt she have some sort of tollerance after all these years. She has had two of my kids but stil cant take a ten inch penis i dont get it. And wen we do have sex i can only put in the tip and then she cant take anymore no matter how wet or excited she is (even when drunk) idk what to do but i want some good lovin but dnt want to cheat please give me any advice
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (11 January 2010):
 Has she ever been able to have sex? without pain? sounds like she's not aroused enough to accomadate you! try getting her aroused fully, you will see a big difference(no pun).
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (11 January 2010):
 What you say? "She has had two of my kids but stil cant take a ten inch penis i dont get it. "...yes, it can fearful. Nature has not favor you by giving too much long sex organ, is first thing, you should consider first.
But, as we all belong to man's species, we all have 'intelligence', which is most creative ability. It will do good if you both started to apply for your sex life.
In sexual activity, 'foreplay' has very special place, say a creative task. You both should learn the art of 'foreplay'. You can use search dictionary on net. And, first have true concept of 'foreplay'.
I can suggest you to give this term, 'Tantric sexuality' to Google search engine, and have many web pages for your study.
You will learn, size of sex organ do nothing in having heaven like pleasure. You both will learn and earn heaven for both of you.
For easy sum-up, please contact me after studying and forming 'tantric concept'. I can make your study easy and fast. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): Even though she's had 2 kids, doesn't mean she'll be streched down there (even though that is the case a lot of the time) Have you tried different lubes? Or sex toys? I can understand that you want to have a sex life with her, have you spoken too her about how you feel? Asked her if there is anything she wants to try that might help? Surely she misses the sex too. Or maybe she has some kind of fear of it and has used your size as an excuse? Perhaps a fear of getting pregnant unexpectantly? The bottom line is you should talk to her about it, I mean you used to have sex and now you can't, unless your penis has grown a considerable amount in the last few years, there doesn't seem to be any logical explanation. My boyfriend and I sometimes had problems with his size at first, it did hurt but we used lube so that I could get used to it.
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