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writes:I am finally to have a relationship after breaking up with someone about 8 months ago. I have tried online dating for the last 6 months and haven't had much luck. I recently reminded of a guy at the gym. I noticed him way back at the end of the summer (I joined in May). I thought he was really cute. I can recall one time that he was sitting at a table near to where I was working out on a treadmill and I could tell he was checking me out. I got busy and didn't go to the gym as much. I was working out right before the end of the year and was alone in the circuit room all by myself. All of a sudden he came into the room and walked across the room and started working out on one of the arm machines. I thought to myself wow, I remember him. I was wondering why he was in the circuit room, since the machine he was working on is out there with the other machines. We were both checking each other out. I went on one of the machines he was on and he came up to apologize to me for not wiping it off. I then noticed what gorgeous blue eyes he had. We spoke a little more. Then I noticed that he was stretching, sort of showing off. I did leave my jacket and went into the next room to work on the machines there. He moved and was stretching some more so I could see him while I was in the other room. I went back into the room to pick up my jacket and he was still in the room. He spun around and I smiled at him and left. I have seen him one other time and I again we were checking each other out. I was on the treadmill and he was on the eliptical. I went onto the machines and he was either a few feet away; working on a machine near me; or walking by me. I did say hi and he replied back. I'm not shy and want to approach and talk to him. It is very apparent that we are attracted to each other. I'm just wondering if I approached him since he is so shy, would it put him off? I was thinking of being really casual and asking him for help on the eliptical. I would love advice from you men out there.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (11 January 2010):
I don't think it would, though it might take him a little time to open up if he is shy. If he likes you, it certainly won't put him. I think you should go for it. Just say hi again, and get to know him a bit more Hopefully he'll open up.
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