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writes:I'm 21 years old and I want a baby really bad i'm prepared to be a mum but I dont think my current boyfriend is the right one even though he is very cute he makes me feel spacial, he loves me and he wants a baby too but i dontknow if i want him to be the dad of my baby, i think I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend :S..What should i do? I really want to have a baby now is thank you
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 I'm 21 years old as well and I just found out recently that I'm pregnant with my second child (first child with my bf the man I'm deeply in love with.)
I love my son I wouldn't trade him for the world, but I wish I would have waited for the right guy to have him with. I had him when I was 19 with a guy that bailed on me as soon as I found out that I was pregnant.
If you are going to have a baby with someone, you should be 100% sure that you want that man to be the father of your child. Also, can you support a child financially on your own? Are you ready to make this child your entire life? No partying. No going out whenever you want without getting a babysitter first?
Babies are a lot of work, but worth every second and there is no feeling in the world like being a mother. But are you really and truly ready to be a mother? Financially can you support yourself and a baby? Why don't you want him to be the father of your child? Why do you think you are still in love with your ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): Bringing a life into the world is one of the most important decisions you'll ever have to make. Think very carefully as to whether this is the right time and person to have one with.
You should not have a baby unless you are 100% certain that you and your partner love each other, are ready for a baby, and are willing to be together for the rest of your lives. If you still have feelings for your ex, then you should resolve your relationship issues before even considering having a child.
It wouldn't be fair to your kid if she/he is born to parents who have an unhappy, dishonest relationship. Please, for your kids sake, just wait until you're happy in a relationship to have a baby.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (14 December 2010):
why do you want a baby so badly? you're still young
also, if you don't think you want ur boyfriend to be the dad then you should not have it
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