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30-35,
*tef02
writes:Ive known this guy for like 5 years or so. The only thing is that i never meet him in person until like 5 months ago. We meet we talked about ourselves and so on. We recetly had sex and i was okay with it but im starting to develope feelings for him. I told him i like him he said he likes me to. I try to say things about another guy i say well im talking to someone else i need to know if things would go fourther his response is i dont plan things, things just happen on there own. So i left it alone. Its hard i see him like twice a week and every time we do things seem to get even better. My question is would this even go further how would i know or what could i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, petina1  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 Hi, he probably doesnt need to commit to you now. Youve got the sex thing out of the way for him and i think thats probably all he wanted. Maybe you should have got to know him a bit better and found out his motives before you had sex. Now along comes the feelings and you are up in the air as to what his intentions are. If he doesnt want to commit further to you especially seeing as you have known him for five years then I can't see you getting the kind of relationship you want from him. The only other thing is just ride it out and don't bring other people in to it because that will only make things worse for you both and cause rows.
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