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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Im too scared to leave my partner of 2 years. He is very abusive, he keeps threating me that he will make sure i will loose my job and that he will do something to my family. He is english and im from czech republic. My family is very importatnt to me. I live with my brother and my partner wants me to live with him but i feel much more safe living with my brother. I see my partner only at the weekends. He always moans about my work because sometimes i have to work weekends. I told him that my mom will come to england for christmas for a visit and he went mad that how could i do that to him without asking him.I wanted to leave him many times but hes got some power over me and i always got back to him. Every time a try to leave him he's always threating me that i will loose my job and that he will make my life hell if he sees me with another man or he will beat my brother up and that he will come to my work place and will smash all the place up.I'm so stressed and cant concentrate on anything. I told him that every time i leave his house I will let my brother know that im ok and he was so angry and said that if he sees my brother he will beat him up and he wont do anything to me now because he dont want to get locked up for christmass so he will wait till january. I really dont know what to do, I feel so trapped in this relationship. Please help i dont know what rights I have in this country or what else can he do to me.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (15 December 2010):
What rights do you have as a woman?? Where was it written that you should be treated like this and accept it or else?
You leave, and you go straight to the police. Let them know everything he has said and done, and you don't look back.
Being brave is being scared to do something, but doing it anyway because it is the right thing to do.
Do not spend Christmas like this. PLEASE!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): restraining order.....
also it sounds like at some level you are still emotionally involved....he doesnt love you he loves seeing how much power he gets over you
call a police before it gets bad
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (14 December 2010):
 You need to go to the police about his threatening behaviour, it's totally unacceptable behaviour and it needs to stop.
I know it seems hard and you want to protect your brother, but you need to leave this man, he is destroying you and for your own safety you need to get away from him. You can speak to the police in confidence to find out what your options are and what steps you can take.
This is clearly tearing you up, you need to sort this out. Best of luck x
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