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writes: Gooday friends.. I have a qestion that i don't know how to solve... the question is..since I've grown up to know the meaning of friendship I haven't had one. Sometimes I start pushing myself too close to people telling them who am I am but I got nothing out of it. I am somebody that likes sharing my private issues with my friend before telling my parents.. sometimes when I needed someone to talk to I began to talk to myself it but am not always ok with my answer. I really need someone I can call my best friend in life whether male or female, share ideas, problems and find a possible solution to it..please friends does it mean that I don't know how to make friends? if so, please teach me how..or does it mean I can't have a friend in my life whom I can trust and be trusted..?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): .
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): you just trust people too quickly...take your time and you will find what you seek
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): Everyone is able to make friends, and actually no one can even teach you how to make friends, all you can do is take advice. In choosing a friend, you need to have good judgement. I was in this kind of state with you about almost 12 years ago. I questioned friendship. I dont even know the meaning of it. I thought that your only friends with someone for a bout a year...well I was naive and I have many friends, that I'm close to.
Everyone, could have a few friends that you can trust with your own life.
I do.
Just when you meeting someone, don't rush in. Don't blurt things out. Introduce yourself to him or her, and you can even ask if you both could be friends. Over time your bond will grow, and true friendship will be reveal XD. Anyway the keyword of friendship is TIME and TRUST. If you cannot find yourself trusting the person, at least a little, its not a good idea to be that person's friend.
Goodluck,
in making friends. ^^
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