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female
age
51-59,
*polar
writes:Ive met this wonderful guy on the internet not to mention for privacy purposes ...Anyway to make a long story short we:ve been dating for 3 months well... He;s takin me out and its been wonderful... as time went by he came to my home to meet the family I have 2 girls 18 and 10 my mom met him first ... of coarse she doent like him y... first off I am 41 yrs old single parent who has always put my children first never neglected my children I have been out of a relationship for close to 4 yrs which was my preference any way this guy came into my life and he made me feel whole again as far as bein close to someone or in a relationship per say the feelin is mutual Im back in the dating game again.. well... on the other hand my mom doesnt like him becous she states that he doesnt come around to interact with the family may I remind you I live in a private home with my mom She has downstairs and I have my own apartment which is on the third flr.....in my past relationships Im use to men showering me with money anything i ask ...not a goldigger I am Ive just been bless to have been in relationships with men who were really nice to me..anyway with the guy I met he is 47 yr old still lives with his mom in the bronx and for a livin he drives the yellow school bus ..... any way he is not as competant as the other guys were well... our schedule isnt really compatible so the only time we get a chance to b together is at night I work wed thurs fri sat sun from 9-8 he works % days a week diffrent times durin the day 10-7 may i also add that I live in brooklyn he lives in the bronx anyway the other night late night while we were getting sexual I heard doors slammin downstairs on my mom floor where she stays next thing you know now this is like 2 in the morn she calls me on my cell phone and says to me what r u doing! at forst I didnt know what she was talkin about she goes y r u disrespecting the house having sex loud i;ve always been cautious and careful when it comes to that ..any way she tells me u better let him leave this house....ummm is she crazy!! im in the privacy of my home I pay her rent did she really feel that i was gonna let him leave becous she was probaly bein noisy listening to us .. i have a 10 yr old girl that has her own room in the front of my apartment Im not gonna b yellin and screamin of passion becous of that i have to b quiet ...any way he left ^ in the mornin as soon as he leaves she comes upstairs to my apartment cursin me out talking about y am I diserectin the house havin loud sex !! i dont want you to bring him back to this house if so im gonna curse him out.... now im stuck between not lettin him come over or goin to his home but the whole ideal is who she think she is i am a grown ass woman i pay her rent and have my own apartment she doesnt have the rite not at all do she?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 No your mother has no right at all to tell you who you can and can't see. You are doing nothing wrong. All you can do is scare her into thinking you are gonna leave and she can live somewhere on her own away from you. I'm sure you wouldnt really want to do that but she definately needs a wake up call. How nice are you to let your mum stay in the same complex and look after her. Threaten to pull the rug from under her and she may calm down and have a re think. Don't let her spoil this relationship you have, everyone deserves some happiness in life.
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