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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My bf broke up with me a month back. Now he is sugessting friends with benefits with me. I said 'NO' since i still have feelings for him and i dont want to get hurt. But i am wondering can I get him back by being with him as a friend (without benefits). I really do love him and i want him back. How can i get him back? Please help me
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reader, Fionnlagh  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Friendship is not going to happen the way you intend or want it to with this selfish jerk/your ex. Your intentions for friendship may have been honest, but he’s just thrown that back in your face.
He sounds like a person that didn’t learn a damn thing from the time you two shared together. The relationship you two had must have been a lesson for you and you alone; because he sure as hell didn’t learn a thing about you.
Forget him young lady, you owe it to yourself and you are soooooooo better than what he is pathetically offering.
'Love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant.' The rest is up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): ~RESPECT~
He has zero respect for you nor himself.
NO!
Promptly dismiss him from your life.
Mainatin your self-respect, as the day you relinquish it is the day you give another permission to abuse it as the individual will find no need to honor your respect as you yourself don't even respect yourself.
~DOOR MATS ARE MADE FOR FREEING THE SOLE OF TAINTING DIRT. IS YOU SOUL TAINTING DIRT?~
NO!
God Bless.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (15 December 2010):
 The real question is why do you still want to be with someone that only wants sex from you?
Move on. Seriously. If he's asking you to be his friend with benefits only a month after breaking up, he's not interested in getting back together. Don't waste your time on him.
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