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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am in a long distance relationship with my b/f. We've been together for the past one and a half years now. I told him I'm a virgin and don't want to have sex now so he should please exercise patience which he did understand. Whenever he is not around me i feel like being with him to the point of having sex with him. But my biggest worry now is immediately i set my eyes on him the feelings of having sex with him goes away. Though he kisses me, caresses me in his arms. So one day i decided telling him how i feel on the phone but he became very sad saying "Is he not attractive to me or he comes around when i don't need him" and i answered "No". I really don't know what the problem is. Please advice me because i love my man very much!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): it has to do with another issue that you arent talking about....you love him you want to be with him but something is wrong...you dont trust him...you cant see yourself marrying him....youre affraid of sex and what commitment you think it might create......he has worried you in some way ....maybe youre affraid things will change after sex....maybe you are affraid you will not satisfy him....you need to think of the things around you and what inside is making you think.......maybe you just want to moment to be special
i was with my bf for 6 months we didnt see eachother and then when we were finally together he was having problems and until we talked about what the underlying issue was nothing would help but once we talked it out ....well everything went well
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