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writes:i've recently begun going out with my younger cousin he is 19 and i'm 23.. anyways we always go out and have such a good time, me with my friends and him with him altogether.and i started chatting to his mate, i used to know him from years ago when i was in primary school but he's grown up ALOT.. well we started chatting on facebook and i've begun to really really like him, so i gave him my number and we've started texting, we've also sex-texted and send some pictures too.. he's been so so nice asking to meet up with me because he says he really likes me and i really want to but there are 2 things which are stopping me1- the age gap he is only 19 and i'm 23. chances are if it gets serious, a lot of people, including my family will frown upon it because there are so usd to me dating (and failing) with older guys.and 2 - my cousin. i've told him friend not to tell my cousin about this just yet as i don't want the awkward conversations about how i am flirting with his friend, who indeed is 4 years younger than me.so what do you think i should do? when we are all out he is texting me standing next to my cousin and i love the thrill of nobody knowing whats going on between us, but how long do you think it will last for?? and do you think it would be wise meeting up with him? as i know we are going to sleep together, there is just too much chemistry but i am also worried about me having more experience than him, and me being let down..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010): gor for it ! im older then my bf, he's my brother's best friend, it started without anyone knowing and that was the thrilling part, then after a while it began to get obvious and now we're very happy together. if u feel something for him go for it or u will regret it later. give it a try :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@ tby1 - i think you misunderstood the question, i am not interested in getting into a relationship with my cousin, it is his friend that i like.. they just happen to be the same age
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reader, steph007  +, writes (14 December 2010):
I do not see any reason not to do what you desire. Neither the age gap nor the cousinship will not count. But do not stay too long in this relationship. Both of you have to build up your own relationship independently in few years. But for a intermittent flame - it can be very nice and deep.
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reader, tby1 +, writes (14 December 2010):
 age is only a number, if theres a connection go for it. i know plenty of cousins that are together also, and some that have got married, much cheaper weddings as you only need to invite 1 family. go for it and enjoy yourself
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