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writes:Are hook ups bad for real, I need an honest answer???? And if they're not then what do hook ups mean when your 16 sex, kissing, touching???? I like this guy but he lives too far away for us 2 be anything, i dont like long distance. I have never done a "fling" or hook up before but is it ok??? or is it slutty even with one guy?? Need advice please and thanx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): First off hi . And second 16 = no sex at all ever. U wnt enjoy it because ur emotions is wat makes sex well.. Good. I can say from experience tht i did not have sex as a teen and i waited until i was in my 20s. Also the one hook up i did have made me feel cheap afterwards. Guys will say ne thing to get in your pants esp. A 16year old boy with testerone running through his body. Lets also think about the long distance thing. Once u do have sex wouldnt u want to c him on a reg basis. I say dnt do it. Because all its gonnna do is give you more ?s and heatache. And also make u wonder is he with sum 1 else. Take your tme ur still young. Dnt give it all to this 1 guy. Wait a wile until college or after. And if u do decide use protection. And i hope watever u decide makes u happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): A "hook up" generally means casual sex. If you like this guy then i don't think sleeping with him or doing anything sexual is a good idea, especially at your age. You will more than likely end up getting attached to him and since you can't be in a relationship you'll end up hurt.
People have different views on casual sex. Some people don't have any problems with it but some people wouldn't dream of doing it without being in a relationship with the person. It's down to personal preference i guess but all in all i think casual sex isn't a good idea in the long run.
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