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*onestarz
writes:I met this girl online while playing an online game. We kind of hit it off, and were surprised that we used to come from the same place, but due to our character (being highly unagreeable, we like standing by our own views and being a little uncompromising), we kind of broke off after like slightly mroe than half a year as we had too much quarrels.After that, we kind of move on with our life. Recently, you can called it fate or whatever, we kind of gravitate back together, and started talking knowing fully well that how we were like before.As we live nearly 6000miles apart, it's not easy to maintain the relationship. So if I'm gonna be serious, I need to think through it a little more.The question now is, do you think it is advisable for someone to get back together with his gf even after such a bad breakup? Will it be possible that we experience all that all over again. That is my biggest insecurity so far.
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reader, lonestarz +, writes (16 December 2010):
lonestarz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI guess you got a point... but it's hard to change a person's characteristics. so yeah..
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reader, Abbzndthighz  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 Hello there :) I completely understand your dilemma as I have gone through something similar. My boyfriend and I fought plenty of times, and we broke up and got back together many times. Believe me it's not worth the pain, not only is a long distance relationship hard its also worse if the person you are 'dating' fights with you regularly.
Unless either of you have plans to move together and set aside your differences and not fight, then I'm afraid you are just walking yourselves into circles..
Hope things work out xxx
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reader, harleygirl2010  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 Yes it is possible that you can get back together and still be in love with each other after the break up. It's also possible for the same break up again. Love is a confusing thing and all about compromising. You can compromise with each other without giving up either of your ideals, views, and beliefs. The best advice i can give to you though is to go with your gut. If it says try again then go for it, if it doesn't then don't. Make sure it your gut feeling and not your heart. Your gut will not lead you down the wrong path. Good luck and hope everything works out for you.
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