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*heFallBackGurl
writes:Me and this girl have been friends for the past 5 years we play a couple sports together and have always been close.In our freshman year of high school she came out as a bisexual. Last year I came out as a lesbian.We are currently juniors in high school now and have developed feelings for each other we started texting calling and messaging each other non-stop the problem was she was talking to someone at the same time now theyre not talking and ive been there for her through the whole thing no matter how hard it was on me trying to help her get with someone else.It's now almost christmas and so obviously i asked what she wanted for xmas and she told me a chill date. I immediatly said yes but now im a little scared! This is my best friend that i care strongly for, shes coming over this friday and all i want to do is hold her and tell her how much i care about her but at the same time i want to take this slow..... what should i do?PLEASE HELP ME OUT!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (25 December 2010):
 Glad to hear it! Thanks for the follow up and merry Christmas.
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reader, TheFallBackGurl +, writes (25 December 2010):
TheFallBackGurl is verified as being by the original poster of the question well everything went great thanks guys we are actually dating now and things are going good i think this relationship will last love ya
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 I think the other two ideas are good i just wanted to add a little something. I think pj's or even just some nice comfy clothes, joggers and that type of thing, are a good idea as well as nice dvds. What i wanted to add was maybe you could get her some of her favourie foods if you can cook, or if you cant her fav candy or snacks, just something small but shows that you know her well and also you care, then just try not to focus on it been a date, give her lots of cuddles and enjoy yourself.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Yes, I love Dirtballs idea! You could maybe tell her to come over and then when she gets there, you can give her her Christmas gift early - some pajamas, a robe or something comfy (go to Victoria's Secret PINK section, cute tanks + amazing sweats.. loveitloveitloveit). Then watch a chick flick, maybe play a board game or cards? (this is me and my fellas FAVE thing to do on a chill night).
Good luck, sweet thing!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (14 December 2010):
Recommend she bring some pajamas, then you two can get all cozy and snuggle up watching a movie. No confessions of undying love, just snuggle up under a blanket and cuddle. It will be great. Pick out a couple of movies you like and have them ready to go. The key is to just enjoy each other's company. I'd recommend romantic comedies so you can laugh and get in the lovey dovey mood.
Good luck and make sure to tell us how it goes!
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