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I want to leave but I really love our little girl, what should I do?

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Question - (14 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 December 2010)
A male Thailand age , *ermanclausan writes:

I am a American living in Thailand. I don't speak Thai and my lady partner does not speak english. Been together 7 yrs. We took in a 4 yr. old little girl that 10 yr. old now. her parents threw her away.

I can't stand her continuously yelling and beating the little girl. She won't stop.

Also she is so controlling of me . Will not listen to anything that I can get accrossed to her. Last week the water was so high I could not get the motorbike through the water. Because of electric start.To take the girl to the bus stop for school. I told her so, but she went to family and somehow they got her accross the water.Well when school was out I got through the water but comming back the water stopped the engine.

I haven't spoken to her for 10 days, over this. The kid could have been drowned.

I want to leave , but I really love the little girl. So I just don't know what to do???

Any advice?

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A male reader, hermanclausan Thailand +, writes (15 December 2010):

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hermanclausan agony auntIn Thailand , it impossible to adopt . One thing is I am a single male . It would be implied that I am a Human Trafficer. It's a terrible fix. I am their sole support. But last year I gave girlfriend $20,000 plus all that she knocks down from me.

I should have never gotten myself into this in the first place.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (14 December 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntWho has legal custody of the little girl? Get legal full custody of the little girl, then move someplace else. Since you are not married, and your partner is not the mother it should be fairly easy.

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