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anonymous
writes:hello, i think my GF and my best friend are scretly dating behind my back, ive been with her a year and my GF and my best friend were going out with each other before, they allways make jokes about them having sex blah blah blah and say im paranoid, yet they carry on with the jokes, its starting to break my heart :( i feel so insecure, they allways go off and do stuff without me and go downstairs without me to make pancakes ect, and she allways sits on him and she doesent look at me in the same loving way she used to, what do i do? please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): you are still a teenager. if your gf is indeed cheating on you, plse move on. basically she is showing her true colours now and if she doesnt respect herself, how can she respect you.make an appointment with both of them. face them both. tell them that u are no fool and for them to plse stop the jokes at your expense. end things with her and well, give them your 'blessing", walk away like the young man you are. head up high and be proud of your actions.you are too young to be concerned all the time whether she is cheating. let him worry about her being dishonest.i think u know you need to cut both the bf and gf out of your life. it will be strange but worth it in the end. be strong. in your weakest moment plse remeber that there are many many more girls out there for you. dont settle for the cheating one. you owe yourself to find better. whether anything has happened or not between them, the fact that she appears untrustworthy and the fact that she is hurting you, justifies you breaking up with her.plse let us know what happens soon.LoveGirl
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reader, petina1 +, writes (14 December 2010):
 Simply ask them outright. I'm sorry but how I'm reading it they are playing around with your feelings. They may not be actually doing it but they may be flirting and maybe on the verge of going there. Its really not fair on you whatever game they are playing and you must put a stop to it but be warned, if she wants him back then you have made it easy for her, maybe she was waiting for the day you tried to stop it.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (14 December 2010):
 Talk to your girlfriend and friend about how you feel. Don't accuse either of them of anything, but ask. You can work out your problems by talking about them. But if your heart is breaking and after talking to them you still think that there might be some feelings between them, then I would end the relationship. Whether you are right or not, it isn't fair that your feeling like this because of what she does.
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