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writes:I have seen chats that my boyfriend of 1.5 years has had with his friends. He is a doctor and has to leave for 3 months as part of his schooling. He and his friends are going together. When they were talking they said 'we need to go to the undergrad campus', 'We need to be wingmen' 'I am sure we can find a few hotties' etc etc. Should I be worried or is this just how guys talk? When we are with each other, which is a lot, we are super sweet and suportive of each other I have met his family multiple times and I am close with all of his friends. He is also 4 years older than me, he is in his 30's.I'm so lost and so upset. I love him very much. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): if hes being a wingman hes just helping his friends find girls if hes looking for hotties . its time to break up and its not love bc he does not respect you
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reader, tss18 +, writes (14 December 2010):
 this is how players talk not all men. saying we need to be wingmen and go to the undergrad camps is unacceptable behavior for a man in a relationship. if this was just stuff his friends were saying and he was just there listening then i wouldnt be worried but if he was joined in the conversation and not telling you that they were just playing then you need to have a talk with him.
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