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writes:I am in love with my best friends brother.There are some problems-She hates him-She told me for ages, If i ever dated him she wouldn't be able to be my friend-I saw him for a few months behind her back (horrible I know) and she pretty much said If i even talk to him again our friendship is over-He pretty much hates me for giving up/choosing her over him/cutting him out completely.It's been about 2 monthes since I talked to him. I miss him so much, and i thought it would get easier, It's not. She knows I love him, but she thinks because I went behind her back I deserve to suffer, which makes sense in a way I guess. I only went behind her back because I found it so hard to resist him. I've never been in love before. He loves me to, And I hurt him when I told him it was over. He thinks I shouldve fought harder. I don't know what to do. Me and my friend are finally good again, should I continue trying to get over him and let the one guy that I feel understands me slip through my fingers, or should I try force her to accept it. (very difficult. Shes one of the most controlling people i've met) I don't know if i am going to get over him very easily. I love him so much.
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