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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have an abusive boyfriend who doesnt want to break up. i dont love him anymore because i have fallen inlove with someone else. He has bit me, swore at me n even posted me half naked on facebook, the truth is i cant stand him anymore but the problem is i dont know how but i always seem to end up under his sheets. im sick n tired of it but i just cant break free.Please ppl request solutions for me cos i really want to be fully committed to my new boyfriend and i really dont want to loose him. he is understanding yes but i want to put an end to this. PPl are telling me if i break up with him ill be causing problems for my 11 month old baby as the abusive boyfriend is the father, they say i must think about the baby. Truth is i have stayed too long just for the sake of the baby, i just cant take it anymore. please help im trapped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): If you keep ending up between his sheets then its a sexual attraction. And you have to learn to say no if you dont want to lose your 'new' boyfriend. Has he any idea that you are still sleeping with your abusive boyfriend? Its always better to finish one relationship beofre starting another. So for now, concentrate on leaving the 'man' thats been abusing you. Be strong when he tries talking you round. Remember what hes like and dont be tempted to keep getting between the sheets with him again. If he keeps asking and you keep obliging, you cant be too surprised thats hes hanging around. Once he knows you cant be talked into anything anymore, he will move on. Then you will be free to start a proper relationship with someone whos going to love and respect you and your child.
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