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writes:i've recently become good friends with a guy i've met at uni. because we have the same friends we often hang out as a group. he's told me before that he thinks dating friends is a bad idea. but recently, he asked me out. i'm not sure if it was meant to be a date or just a catch up, but he didn't ask our other friends to join us, and he later told me that if he liked a girl and were to ask her out, he would do it casually and not label it as a 'date' as it would put unnecessary pressure. he later talked about dating with friends, and agreed with me in saying that it's a risk but you never know till you try. the thing is, when we have these conversations i have no idea if he is trying to drop some sort of hint about maybe liking me, or if i'm just reading too much into it and it was just purely conversation. any ideas anyone?? Reply to this Question
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reader, nikkeehbarakat  +, writes (15 December 2010):
Maybe you should just ask him?
I know it sounds kinda risky and scary but like you and he both agreed, you never know until you try.
Guys are... Awkward and annoying to figure out, you think they mean one thing but really they mean another; so the only way you can really find out is by asking him straight up.
Good luck! x
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