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female
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anonymous
writes: i seem to be attracted to the wrong type of guy and i don't know what to do.. I love the guy who is always up for a laugh, who can handle himself and who basically knows how to have a good time. ALthough everytime i get into a relationship with these men, they all go wrong..I either get treated badly, end up working so hard to make them happy and then it turns out that i was working for nothing, it was never going to go anywhere. But i can't help but fall for these men, i would so much like to be interested in a good guy, one who will treat me the way i deserve and will respect me..But how do i find one, when i'm so blind to their nature in the first place?? Do i just look for my normal type of guy and start chatting to his quiet friend beside him?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): Try and broaden your scope to the less obvious guys who are not about getting themselves noticed. It's worth a try. The slightly quieter guys who are not totally full of themselves. Get to know the ones that you could like to have as a friend and let things grow from there.
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reader, advisorX +, writes (14 December 2010):
Dont fall in-love to a wrong guy.
And how are you going to do it?
Dont rush everything up. Go have friends to nice guys who will treat you nicely, who will respect and care for you as a girl.
Make a long courting stage, get to know each other well before entering in a relationship.
The best boyfriend you will have is the best friend that you have for a longest time.
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