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writes:me and my fiance use to have sex 2-3 times a weeks. (a lot of times she started it) but now shes on the DEPO pregnancy shot and we now we have sex maybe once every 2-3 weeks, and i have to kinda work to get her in the mood, and i feel guilty, cause i feel like I'm throwing myself at her. and I'm not with her for sex, i love this girl, but I'm a passionate guy. and its has me worried, is the DEPO shot putting a damper on her sex drive, or is she hiding something from me?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (30 August 2010):
 I had a gf who lost all of her sex drive when she switched to the depo shot. It's super Convenient, but I've known others who have reported similar decreases in their sex drive with this birth control method.
Maybe it is time to talk to the doctor again. Good luck.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Isn't DEPO a type of birth control? Sorry, I don't know much about it. It COULD be the shot but that wouldn't make much sense because birth control isn't supposed to suppress sex drives.
It could be because she used to start it most of the time. Try and start it a couple of times and see how it feels.
It could be both the DEPO AND a secret but I highly doubt that.
You say you love her, so talk to her about it. Ask her if anything's bothering her, if anything has been on her mind lately.
I hope that helps.
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