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writes:I'm curious about something, and getting different perspectives on it, this is a hypothetical,primarily girls, cause I already know how men think seeing I am one, but can someones sexual ability's be overlooked at the expense of your love for them? like say you're ex was really good in bed, and your new love is not, what are your feelings about the whole situation? do you just cope? or is this enough to change your feelings about your new love? though your not in love with your ex any longer,is sex that big of a deal that you would think and want sex with that ex that was good at it? an incident in my life made me very curious about this many years ago, and I just thought this would be the perfect forum to answer this question? Reply to this Question
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (31 August 2010):
 I wouldn't go back to an ex if it was just for sex. When I love someone, I love them, and sex is nice, but its definitely not everything. I care more about how someone treats me. And to me, unless your partner is totally unwilling to compromise, and possibly learn and experiment, why go back to the ex? Why not "teach" your partner what you like? Like the saying goes..an ex is an ex for a reason, right? I realize I'm older and perhaps someone younger would feel sex was important enough to go to an ex for, but I never would.
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (30 August 2010):
No, sex isn't enough to change how I feel about the person I love. At least so far. But then again, I've been semi-satisfied with sex in most of my relationships. What's important to me is having sex on a semi-to-regular basis and having a partner that isn't sexually selfish. If the sex isn't that great, I'd look for ways to spice it up. Sure, I do sometimes wistfully think back to my ex who is bigger and had a bigger sex drive than my current bf, but it isn't that big of a deal to me. Plenty of ways for sex to be good.
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