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writes:She is in a rocky relationship. In a relationship with her bf for 5 years. Broke up but patched countless times. She had cried, being emotionally hurt in this relationship A month back, she cried because of this relationship. She tells me he is very possessive. He slapped her before 2 years back. If she doesn't pick up his calls or replies his text messages, he warns her that he'll come under her apartment or come to her school. She started to have feelings for me last year but it's on and off and that kinda hurts me. She forgives him because she thinks one day he might change, but in the end, she still ends up being emotionally hurt and it is still going on. She's just afraid that she won't be able to move on after breaking up with him because it's hard to forget him. Can she ever end this relationship for good? I'm worried about her.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Only time will tell if she will. I would recommend that she does. No one should have to go through being controlled, manipulated or abused. I agree it can be difficult to move on, but she needs to take into account, what she would be moving on from. I don't feel with these behaviors that he will change, but I do feel if she remains with him the control and abusive behavior will intensify.
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