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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Mod note:OP's own titleI've been with a guy for almost a year nowi do love him but he said it once and never said it againi used to say it all the time but stopped because i never got the response i wantedit is impossible to stay together, he's younger than i am (2 years)and we live in tow different countrieswe both know it will never lastevery time i go to his country i try to end things with him bcoz he doesn't love me and we will be apart soonhe doesn't agree and always says .. u have a special place in my heart and i can't let gothe last time i asked him to just let me go he agreed but a couple of days later he calls and begs me to take him backhe is a very nice guy never lied or cheated on mehe never even spoke loud to mei know we have to leave each other sooner or later i always say the sooner the better so i can forget about and get on with my lifebut why won't he let go of me now ?and any advice on how to do it without hurting him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): i don't think that there is easy way to leave someone.
but you need to talk to him, tell him how you feel, and tell he need to decide either he loves you or you should leave each other.
regarding the age, the age doesn't matter, the important thing is that you love each other (that of course in case he loves you back)
may be he just won't let you go because of sex, in that case you need to leave him.
best luck
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