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writes:my boyfriend is 2 years older than me and is a bout to start thinking about college. hes still got senior year but hes working on stuff. i support him in everything he does including his band which is practically his life. We had this talk about how hes not going to be able to see me much and how his band right now is the most important thing to him. and he still told me that he cares about me very much and that he wants me to bear with it for the time being. im really trying but i haven't seen him since last Sunday which was a week ago. he hasn't texted me much and i miss him like crazy. I want to know how to make this work for me. All my friends are giving me advice which consist of talking to him. But i have no idea when that will be and i really want advice for what to do right now. thanks
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (7 September 2010):
 I didn't say it wasn't going to work, neither was my answer negative...I'm 25, been to college went into college engaged..so I know how this works. Give him a break he's busy, you can talk to him and tell him you feel a little left out. But that will only go so far because he's got a lot on his plate right now..so you will just have to deal with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni really want POSITIVE answers i dont want to stop seeing him or think about him cheating on me in college!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 August 2010):
Ouch he told you, that you are second best. The guy is busy with his band and it's his senior year so there's the added stress of what colleges do you want to apply to, will my good grades pay off, or did slacking off in literature class ruin my chances of getting into state, what's my major and minor, not to mention the senior-itis. It's a very busy and stressful time..you'll understand when that time comes for you. This relationship is going to show a lot of strain and there's no need to talk to him about it because he's already discussed it with you. Either buck up and ride it out, or let it go because let's face it he's going to college in a year where there's lots of options and I'm not just talking about education. Girls. Keep your options open, honey. You're still young, own it.
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