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writes:Hey guys,I really like this boy and I've always been there for him. All summer I listened to him talk about how annoying his girlfriend was and how much he missed his other girlfriend when she went home to another country. We have so much in common its crazy and all my friends say we look cute together. My one friend always tells us to go out whens we are together. I haven't talked to him in a while and I heard he likes this other girl who is really pretty, but a slut. I don't know what to do I want to get over him but I just can't. Reply to this Question
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reader, L?  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Ahh right, so everyone's catching on but him. In that case try to make it more obvious like, why waste his time or effort trying to get this other girl when you're waiting sort of thing. If he still doesn't get it, you might be best just revealing yourself, see how it goes once everything's out in the open. Sounds like he really values you as a friend so whether he feels the same way or not you'll still have his friendship, you've got nothing to lose xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've been told that that may be the reason he sees me as just a friend, because I'm always there for him, but at the same time I always flirt with him, and everyone seems to notice but him.
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reader, L? +, writes (30 August 2010):
It's great that you two have a good friendship but i think the reason why it may not have gone any further is because to him you are a friend with a shoulder to cry on, like you said you've 'always been there for him'. If it is meant to be something will come of it but you would have to show you are interested to get past being just friends, because right now he is oblivious to your feelings. However, if this is no longer what you want and you know it isn't going to work, try to stop thinking of him in that way. It can be very hard to get over someone, especially the guy you never had, but once you take them off that pedestal you've placed them on you realise that they may not be all you made them out to be. Keep your options totally open and don't limit yourself to that one guy, someone even better will come along and you'll wonder why you wasted so much time thinking about what could have been:) good luck xo
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