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writes:i have been with my husband seens i was 16 now im 22. we have a great wounderful 3 year old boy that we love so mush. everything for me was geating good. we are renting an apartment with some one else also there is a lot of poeple in the house hold right now. resently my husband younger brother moved back an had no wear to go so he is staying with us. but i don t mind becuase he helps around the house and with the cooking. my thing was that my sister-in-law. seens we got the apartment she has been in our home for the past mounths . she was feeling lounly becuse her husband was in jail. so i did not mind her beening there. but it got to a point were she toke things to far. she got friendly with one of our close friends. she went every were with him. and used our house to meat the guy. every time that i was home she would be there and also the friend. it got to the point were she would come to the house every day at 10 in the morning and would not leave intell 1 . i did not want to say any thing because i did not want any problems. but she started cooking for her and the friend every day and would not clean up after . so when i got home from work after doing 8 hour shift i would find my house upside down. this went on untill my sister-in-laws husbhand got out of jail and had no wear to go so my husband took it upon him slef to let them stay while they found a place. so every thing change i had more bills to pay. i was so unhappy becuase i had no control of my house hold. i did not know what to do. when my sister-in-law moved out i was very happy becuase i was going to get mhy house back. but that was not it. when her hosband got a job. my sister-in-law would be at my house like always she would come at 8 in the morning and would not leave in till 12 at night. it got worst because when her husband got got of work he would come to my house take a shower there and eat there too. it was like if they lived there also. but with out paying rent. she and her husband toked over my house hold. the only thing that helped me was that my sister-in-law husband found out that when he was in jail she was seeing a guy witch is now his best friend. so she was not free to be out any more because the friend would always stop by my house to say hi to my husband. so for 1 mounth she just was at the house fisting like it was suppost to be. but every thing right now is going back the way it was were my sister-in law and her husband come over every day. just dont no what to do. im getting a new apartment in 5 days and it is smaller then the one i have now and my sister -in law told me (it is to small. we are not going to be able to sleep over when we want to). i just got mad so mad that i have not talk to her. i want my own apartment with just my family is that so mush to ask for. i want to tell my husband that i hate haveing his sister here 24/7 but im scare that he mit get made and think that i hate is sister. i dont hate her is that i need space. i just dont want problems with them i just dont now what to do.
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reader, *cHrIsTiNa*  +, writes (31 August 2010):
honestly I had the same problem... what solved it was telling my husband I didn't want to tell him cause I thought he would get mad but I did... what I did was sat down with him and explained how I felt and that all I want is privacy. that we got our own place to be alone not with the whole family.. so the best thing for u to do is tell ur husband and he will fix everything....
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