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*horty80
writes: I have just seen the woman of my dreams with another man, we had being messing with each others heads for a while now, but seeing this happen has really made it hit home for me, she is the one i want to be with, and seeing another man with her is eating me up. I dont know if it was just a one off or if they have started dating. She likes, me i like her, but we had a few minor issues about silly stuff that we never sorted out, and things wer on a knife edge. Her best friend had told me a few weeks back to talk to her, and try and sort things out and i didnt, know i feel like crap, the same friend then taunted me the last nite when she was kissing the new fella, more or less saying look now you stupid fool. But there is nothing more sure in my head now that she is the one i want, but i think i could be too late, i havent lost hope in getting her back still, i will do everything possible to win her back. Obviously this has happened to other people as well, what did you do, did you and him/her sort things out, or have i left it too late this time and she is gone for good, Help me please!!!
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reader, shorty80 +, writes (30 August 2010):
shorty80 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe have know each other for a gud few yrs as well, she lives only a few miles near by
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reader, shorty80 +, writes (30 August 2010):
shorty80 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have walked away before and regret'd it, goin to try this time to sort things out, nothing 2 lose really
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 August 2010):
I wouldn't be too sure about who she is. You don't really know, since you saw her with this other man. Whatever happens, she's now seeing someone else and has said nothing to you, or ended it with you. So you're being played one way or another. Walk away.
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reader, shorty80 +, writes (30 August 2010):
shorty80 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat isnt the case, she hasnt been with that many men at all, she is very selective about whom she is with, i was talking to 1 of her friends recently from a few yrs back and she said that many people where she comes from were thinkin she mite be lesbian so few d men she has been with. She was really into me but i just messed things up completely!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 August 2010):
My suspicion of this women is that she is seeing several men all at once. Nothing wrong with that if none of you are committed, I'm afraid. But something wrong if you're looking for more. Basically, if you want a relationship with this women, it's not going to happen. She's playing a few men, and I really don't think she'll give them all up for you, since she hasn't already. Probably best to walk away.
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