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writes: my boyfriend drives me insane! weve been together for four months now and i really do love him , before we got together officially we were good friends for a year. i have sleeping problems , i was a doctor holton patient i took 11 tablets a day which i didn't need and longterm effects has caused me anxiety, sleep deprivation, headaches. i have problems sleeping, i have to tell him to go bed an hour before so when i got to bed he doesnt keep me up he fidgets moves onto my side of the bed squashing me, snores whistles, last night he put his phone under my pillow despite that it had low battery! i had work today didnt have to be up till 12 but because of his phone going zzz low batery i have been up since 7!later on in the evening we chose to watch a film with my family he shouts out this one o this one i like this one i said shut up! i can't read what it is and listen to you at the same time (i also have a hearing problem so i can't cope with outer noise when trying to read) it drove me insane! he knows all of this i have no secrets from him, it just drives me insane and then he winds me up i said i dont like it. hes teasing me because he thinks its funny i shouted and said it isn't funny i don't like it so stop. he said i was joking i was joking i was joking he wouldn't listen to me. 2 hours after we went outside for a ciggerette he then asked why i was mad, i felt like screaming! i said you teased me to a point were you made me mad im tired youve kept me up because of your phone, you then wanted to talk to me when you were awake , you annoyed me to the point where i was mad because you wouldn't listen. i said my dad is autistic (he knows this) he treats my mum likes this not listening when hes upset her i will not be subjected to the same thing. he said im sorry i had now idea , i said do you understand why i am annoyed? he said yes i would be too. that he didnt mean it i said i accept that but you have to apprecicate that i still feel angry by you, annoyed and i need to cool off , so you can't hug me talk to me for a while till i feel chiled out. this happens frequently, i am fed up of having to repeat myself i do not understand why he cannot empathise, i also have cystitus and my period atm so im in extra pain, and he cant get this! i want to hurt him i just feel so mad.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 So you hurt him, maybe go to jail, and it will be better there than home...right??
Did the thought of getting a better boyfriend ever cross your mind? Or just taking a break from boys altogether until you can sleep and have a some what normal life?
You do not keep things in your life that drives you insane, why do it?
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