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writes:Hey i dunno whats going on in my life but if you could help me i,d be grateful. For the past three weeks i,ve been meeting up with a guy and making out , giving head , fingered and other tings we never went the whole way. He 's starting collage soon and we wont see each other much but we wanted to keep texting. Anyway i replied to a text from him and he hasn't replied. I didnt take much notice to this till i remebered he said " If i,m not intrested in texting a person i wont text back ". My sister said he,s just trying not to hurt me by like not meeting up and giving me false hope. But I know theres something special there coz why else would we have made-out and stuff. I want to text him but U,m afraid i,ll seem obbsessed any Ideas on what i should do? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your answers Thank you for your honesty...even though its hurting thank you i really appreciate it and will get over it :) x
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reader, holliegeorgie.x  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Basically he had to reason to treat you like that. You tried everything to make him happy and you fell for him whilst hes getting the pleasure and giving you nothing in return. If he doesn't bother texting back he was never worth it. Just another useless and stupid boy trust me. Don't text him, don't seem desperate. Make him come chasing after you. If he doesn't then he really is nothing. You will find somebody who you truly love and he certainly isn't the person. Promise, best of luck.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 August 2010):
I had to feel sorry for you, because you've been so played by this guy. Never, ever make the mistake of thinking that just because you've made out and done stuff with a guy that there is suddenly something special. You can take it from a guy that often it means the opposite. If you'd been dating and moving slowly, then my advice would have been different. As it is, I think that this guy has probably just used you and ditched you before he goes away to college. Just don't contact him, and in future make sure a guy takes you out on dates and shows you attention that is not just sexual.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 You made out and stuff because all he wanted was a little favor from you. He used you for nothing but hooking up. Plus, he said himself he won't text if he doesn't like you and he's stopped texting you. This guy is going to college where he's going to meet so many other people and a lot of girls. Sorry, if there was something special from the get go then he would have took you out on a proper date. Let this guy go he's just not that into you.
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