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36-40,
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writes:For instance, why do men who were once interested in you suddenly don't want you to know that they are interested in someone new. Wouldn't that just make it easier? It's been six monthes and I feel like my excrush is "hiding" his love life from me. I rather he just act like its no big deal. Yes it hurts, but I always told myself that if a guy moves on, then so should I bc then he really isn't worth it. He took some time to and I'm grateful for that but I don't need him to hide it all. It makes me feel weird about myself. He blocked me 6 monthes ago but I found out and he didn't block the family fb and I didn't add him on that but I did confront him from there. I deactivated everything two monthes ago so I could concentrate on my applications for graduate studies and I activated 4-5days ago. I did check his yesterday...and he no longer has a relationship status up or wall availabe ot the public. Like my setting, ironically. I did in May bc I decided that if he didn't care to keep me as a friend then he didn't deserve to know whts up with my life.
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reader, dijoyful  +, writes (31 August 2010):
 i was in the same situation, my ex finished with me for no apparant reason. We were friends for years before we got together, after some major events in his life he chickened out of our relationship, we remained friends for a year talking regularly about his problems and his family, i was hopeing we would get back together. In this year he meet someone got engaged and moved in with them,they are now married. He never gave me any sign of this was going on in his life. I heard it through the grape vine and then decided to end our friendship. I can only tell you what happened in my case, i think he wanted to keep me in his life as we had a strong bond, and in his mind he thought that if i found out what he was upto i would cut him out of my life, and he was right. If he tells you, you might cut him out too, and he will lose you support. Prehaps his keeping it quite because if it goes wrong you will be there for him to come back too, he might even feel guilty. I walked away and got on with my life as it would of hurt to much to see him have with someone else what i wanted. My advice would be leave him alone, no contact, or just tell him you know and your cool with it, walk away with your head held high, its his lose anyway
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