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writes:heyyah im 15 and im pregnant but the father or my parents dont know anything about it and im scared of what they all might say...im scared of the father leaving me on my own to raise the baby and im scared that my parents might not want anythin to do wiv me anymore...i just dont know what to do..... Reply to this Question
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reader, Shaz1994 +, writes (1 September 2010):
Shaz1994 is verified as being by the original poster of the question heyyah agen i wud just like to say that the advice u gave me was great me and my boyfriend are still together after i told him i was pregnant and have recently worked out that im about 10 weeks pregnant and we are going to tell my parents when we go out for lunch on sunday.....i wud like to thank all of u for the help
good luck to u all in the future xx
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 If you are going to keep the baby, you need to get pre-natal care NOW! You need to make sure your diet is giving the baby everything it will need and what else you can do to keep it healthy. Missing some basic nutrients now could wind up with an unhealthy baby later. Please see a doctor as soon as you can this week. You are also considered a high-risk pregnancy because of your age.
Keeping the news from people may harm your baby, and so I encourage you to get medical care as soon as possible. Good luck.
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reader, Shaz1994 +, writes (30 August 2010):
Shaz1994 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionheyyah all thanks for everything u have sed as soon as i wrote this question i realised what i had to do.... i have decided to keep my baby and i am going to tell my boyfriend within the next and after i have told him we will then decide on what to do after that xx
hope to keep in touch wiv u all xx
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reader, tigz16  +, writes (30 August 2010):
the best thing to do is tell your parents they may be hurt annd upset but they love and care about you so they will help tell the person whos the dad and if he wants to help let him if he leaves you bad luck 2 him your parents should help you if you decide on what you want to do as your young.
you may be scared of telling your parents but its for the best as you will need help e.g havin scans, at the birth and all the rest of the babies life
best of luck x
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reader, rcn +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Telling them is what you need to do. It can be extremely scary. I have daughters too, I know I would be upset if they got pregnant, but I would be there to help them through it. You are going to have to face this. You might want to confide in a friend or a counselor who can face this with you. I've known many teens who have had children, and their parents were upset at first as well, but then feel and act blessed that they have a grandchild.
Good luck to you and remember that having a child is a blessing, although being as young as you are, you'll have obstacles, but trust me, in the end it's worth going through them, especially when you have people with you who will help you do so.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 If you plan to keep the baby, it's time to start being mature. The mature thing to do is tell everyone involved, and let them know what your plans are.
Being honest is always hard at times like this, but it's the best thing to do. If the father wants no part of it then too bad for him. He would have missed an amazing part of his child's life and will never get that back.
I will be honest with you...Having a baby at your age is good and bad.
Bad because... there is a lot of life you have not experience yet, and a child means giving up a lot.
Good because... You will have the energy to keep up with a growing baby, and you and your child can relate more since the age gap is not so far off.
If you have support, things could actually be ok.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 The child is always afraid of the parent but you are inevitably going to have to face the fact that your parents will find out anyway. It's better you tell them now and give them a chance to help you so that you can all deal with this early.
If your parents love you, they won't just leave you to be on your own, especially at such a young age.
I hope that helps.
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