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writes:This is a prespective question for women. Ladies, what do you think of male virgins over the age of 20?We can break this up into differnent cateogories too. What's your opinion on these scenarios, and what can they do?The guy whose waiting for a significant other or marriage?The guy who is considered unattractive by all of his peers and therefore is unexperienced in talking,kissing etc ?(overweight/ugly/etc.)? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): I think every women, including myself, wants to be the first of a man whether he knows hot to do it or not.
I agree with sammi star.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): Women like you if they think you are a virgin by choice. They pity you if they think you haven't had the chance.
Either way, they usually prefer every possible sign of a sexually active guy right up until they find out your status.
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 I don't think there are many women who would mind if a guy was a virgin or not. It's really not the first thing we consider!
Obviously if you met a guy who's waiting for marriage then you would have to be wanting the same thing or that could be kinda frustrating!
A guy who's considered unattractive and is inexperienced in talking to girls...hmm, well I actually really like that! My current boyfriend was like that, hes kinda shy and was always much worse when trying to talk to women and I loved it! I thought it was adorable and it made me take the lead which is a bit of a confidence booster to know you're in control, I can't be the only woman who feels that way!
A guy thats overweight or ugly...everbody is baeutiful to somneone. That sounds like a terrible cliche I know but it's true. Looks might grab the attention of a partner but they aren't going to keep someone interested long term, you gotta have something else going for you too right?! Being a gent and making a girl laugh can get you a long way :)
So yeah, male virgins. No big deal!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Actually, I think they have a better advantage at pleasing a woman in bed because they are eager to learn..the woman can adjust the guy to her likings and teach him as they go along. Some guys who are experienced go into sex thinking what works on one chick will work on the other, wrong!
A guy who's waiting to marriage that's generally due to his faith, and more power to them for holding off on their urges. The guy who is waiting for that right woman, that's just downright sweet and when he finds that woman I hope it's very special.
I actually have a best friend who is very good looking, talkative, but can't get a girlfriend and is a 24 year old virgin because all the girls think he's gay or he just falls too quickly into the friend zone. Then again, I've seen the dorky unattractive guys I went to high school with getting married. So, it doesn't matter whether they're unattractive, overweight, metrosexual, or with model looks there's someone out there for everyone and I'm doubting they'll be virgins for the rest of their life.
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (30 August 2010):
I would feel uncomfortable if I was dating a guy that was a virgin for whatever reason. In this modern culture, marriage is getting pushed back, and people easily live together just to try things out. And sex is happening earlier and earlier.
If someone decides to wait for someone special or for marriage, that's admirable and fine, but my perspective is that I would find myself uncomfortable with it because I'm highly sexual and would like to be with someone somewhat experienced. But I'm sure there are many out there who would find that sweet. So if they want to wait, that's fine.
Inexperienced - the only way to get better at that is to practice. Talking to people, meeting new people, trying to be more confident. Lots of people are somewhat self-conscious and a bit shy. Just try opening up and practicing those social skills.
Unattractive/overweight, etc. Those things certainly won't help finding a partner to lose virginity with. Certainly trying to lose weight is a healthy thing to do, which I would advise no matter what. Other than that, keep trying to meet new people and be confident. Appearances aren't everything. I find my bf a lot more appealing to me now than when I first saw him.
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