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writes: i am married and have been for years but i would like to have a open marriage with our friends that we have know for years how do i go about ask my husband and my friend about this Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Miamine +, writes (30 August 2010):
This is so hard to do.. first you need to talk to your husband and see what he thinks about adding people to his marriage. I don't suggest you actually mention the people who you want to have sex with. Just mention it as a private fantasy at first.
This swinging thing is very, very difficult to do, especially with friends.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (30 August 2010):
Very carefully, very very carefully. Unless you have an inkling all parties feel the same way, you may end up with an ex-husband and ex-friends.
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