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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: My best friend seems to not like me anymore. I mean, she doesn't completely ignore me, like she responds if I ask her something, but she doesn't really hang out with me. We use to be really close and talk all the time and stuff, but now there is this other girl that she hangs out with, like, all the time. I feel like she doesn't like me anymore. What should I do? She is a really funny person so maybe someone could give me ideas of funny things to talk about with her?
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (31 August 2010):
Caringguy is right. Once you confront her you will know where you stand.
and its true that you will go through a lot of friends at your age. My bestfriend from ages of 13-15 is a girl who I barely talk to today, I'm 22 years old. My whole group of friends then are strangers to me now. But it sounds sad, not so much. I acquired new friends as time passed, met new people, changed cliques persay.
Just ask her about it, if she wants to be your friend she'll hear you out
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 August 2010):
I would just be honest with her, and say that you've noticed your friendship seems to be getting a little distant and that you miss her. That way you'll know where you stand more.
You're at an age where your friends are going to change, so sometimes things like this will happen. You'll have a friend, then move on to another, and another. That's what young people do. It's always sad to lose a friend, but chances are you'll gain another.
Just be honest with her and see what happens.
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