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writes:Hi I have the opposite problem to premature exjaculation, in that I take ages to cum. I can get close on a number of occasions, (have pre-cum), but I can last for ages. Most of the time this isnt a problem, but sometimes it is nice to have a quickie, or cum before my partner gets board, but I know that I can manage to, so I wondered if there was anything I can do differently that would get me off quicker. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2009): Hey!I have a the same problem. Sometimes I can't "cum on cue" and this makes my partner a little uncomfortable. They in-turn give me some pressure to shoot.Sometimes I can't. I love intercourse, just don't feel it is necessary to orgasm each time.I can go and go...and go. Just cumming is quite an issue in this relationship - I can sense an underlying tension in this area.Any advice on how to "cum quicker"?
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reader, dddddddd  +, writes (20 May 2009):
You could try cumming less often and see if that makes you cum sooner.
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reader, Prophet7  +, writes (19 May 2009):
Don't worry about it. You should worry if you came fast. You can give your female friend a quickie and as long as she cums your job is done. Some men who perform quickies on a regular basis turn into "minute men". They get use to the quickies and then it's hard to turn back into the machine they once were. Be glad you have the problem of lasting long, many men wish they could. I give quickies but I usually never cum. I save it for the real sessions. If you really want to be able to cum fast then you need to get more involved mentally. Look at her body and realize how beautiful your partner is while in the act. Concentrate on how good she makes you feel. Sex is both mental and physical. Hope my advice helps you. Prophet7
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reader, Yos  +, writes (19 May 2009):
 A short but good article on the BBC website about this:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/probs_difficultyejaculating.shtml
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reader, misswalston +, writes (19 May 2009):
 Hey believe it or not, most women look for that in our men, because unfortunately most men leave us in the dust when it comes to that and we are still ready to go and they are finished, so feel good that you can go like that. I am very impressed!!!!!!But, if you want to come first sometimes, here is what you do: Talk dirty stuff to the woman, and have her talk dirty stuff back to you. Have her tell you things like oh baby it is sooooo good, oooooh gooooood, yea baby, oooooh give it to me harder, harder, harder. There are just few of the things, but you make sure you say some stuff back to her. Tell her how good her vagina feels, tell her how wet it is. Also try positions that arouse you the most. Most men like the doggy style because they like staring at our buts especially if it is a big but. Watch yourself go in and out. That might work also......Good Luck.......
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