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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My friend (female) is now going out with a guy. Why do I feel like i've died inside ?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (19 May 2009):
Well you know you are going to spend a lot less time with her and you know your relationship is going to have to be far more respectable and respectful to him.
EG. I would happily cuddle up and share a bed with my male friends when I was single. It didn't mean anything sexually but it was great feeling that close to someone as a friend.
When I got a boyfriend though all that would stop as I wouldn't want him to get jealous so my male friends got pushed back behind some clear set boundaries. They still are there and it's sad but the way of life when you meet someone you want to go out with.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (19 May 2009):
 You're probably jealous that you'll have to share the time you have with her with another person, or you have much deeper feelings for her than you realise.
I'm sure you've probably come to that conclusion though.. why else would you feel like you've died inside?
There's not really much you can do now.. just be supportive and always be there for her. If she's in her teens, then MOST relationships don't really tend to last that long, especially whilst in high school.
If it doesn't work out with her and that guy then maybe you can step in.
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