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Does liking anal masturbation make me gay?

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Question - (19 May 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Does liking anal masturbation make me gay?

does thinking of men when i touch myself make me gay?

does asking these questions make me gay

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A female reader, babyminow United States +, writes (20 May 2009):

babyminow agony auntif having to think of men to get up and masturbate is the only way to got then yes you may be gay. if you like looking at other men then you might be gay. if you stare at guys behinds you might be gay. if woman are never attractive to you you might be gay.

if its not the only reason but you think of both, you might be bi. if both boys and girls are good for you too look at then you might be bi. so on and so on

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009):

If you love to touch yourself that way while fantasising about men, I hate to be the one to break it to you that perhaps, just possibly, you may indeed be less than 100% heterosexual.

WONDERFUL!

There's nothing to be ashamed of, though society is still a bit spooked about gayness, and any young gay guy feeling this way is bound to be a bit overcome with the extremity of it all. You'll get over it and get into it. You don't need help, you need...I don't have to draw you a picture.

To answer your questions one by one:

Liking anal masturbation, thinking of men while you do it, and asking these questions doesn't make you gay. God did.

Enjoy and good luck!

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A male reader, dddddddd Australia +, writes (20 May 2009):

Being sexually attracted to men (and not to women) is what makes someone gay.

It isn't something you can control though, and if you are only attracted to men that is just the way it is. If you think about men and not women then chances are you are gay.

You're 16 or 17 so there is no hurry to work it out yet. Give it a little time and you'll probably realise exactly what you are and aren't attracted to.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009):

anal masturbation does not make you gay. i do it sometimes. now if you're willing to take penis in the ass, then you're gay. anal masturbation makes me cum better, faster, and it feels oh-so good!

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A female reader, blueyes333 United States +, writes (20 May 2009):

it doesnt necessarily make you gay...a lot of guys like to have specific "attention" to their assholes during sex with a female. but if youre thinking about men while you masturbate....and ur not thinking about them with a woman...then you might be bi-curious...you could potentially be gay. Thinking about a man and a woman together, while you masturbate is normal...but if you just fantasizing about a man, or man on man, then............yea you might just be gay : )

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009):

no i don't think it does. being gay is defined as the physical or emotional attraction to a person of the same sex so i don't think that enjoying anal masterbation makes you this :) when the C-spot is stimulated it is pleasurable and this is what causes your enjoyment. its perfectly natural :)

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