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Help!!! Confused about my sexuality...

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Question - (19 May 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i've been getting erections when i see pics of men naked and when i see girls naked, i took a gay test and it came out that i might be bi-curious, then i was surfing the net and come upon this gay club in my town, i looked all over the website and had a massive erection, and i told myself when i was 18 i will go, but i'm scared to admit it, i feel as though i may be bi-sexual i know i'm not gay, see girls arouse me really easily, i just feel i'd know my sexuality if i had some sort of sex with a man, but i'm scared to do it, i'm only 16 i have had sex with women, besides i wouldnt know where to find a guy to do it with, if you could help me out by just giving me some advice, it would mean so much.

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A male reader, bi_KID_bi Australia +, writes (30 May 2009):

I'm 16 and bi. It's not bad it's fun. If I got to a party I can pick a chick a guy, it makes it a whole lot easier. If you wanna find a guy to root go to a party where there is a lotof grog. There will be loadsof drunk guys that will just go along with it. That's who it happned for me (with both sexes)

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A male reader, the_phoenic United Kingdom +, writes (20 May 2009):

i have nothing agains gays

and i consider my self 100% hetrosexual

but when i was your age i had some homo fantaseis and enjoyed those fantaseis and as far as i know almost all hetrosexual men have been there in thier teens aswell

so for me you sound more hetro then homo

good luck

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A female reader, babyminow United States +, writes (20 May 2009):

babyminow agony auntbeing bisexual is nothing to be ashamed of, there are many gay men and weman all over the world, if you want to experiment, then go out and look around, the gay guys arent hiding and i am sure that they wont mind helping you. if you think you should wait at least wait till college, everyone experiments in college, right? i hope this helped a little

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A female reader, misswalston United States +, writes (19 May 2009):

misswalston agony auntFirst of all, you need to ask yourself this question: Who do you get aroused by more? men or women? If it is men, then I would say that you pretty much are halfway there, now as far as you wanting to have sex with a man to prove if you are bi-sexual or not, you can stand outside the gay clubs if you are not ready to go inside. Trust me, someone will approach you and once you do what you need to do, then you will be able to figure out the rest.......Good Luck.....

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