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writes:hey there,im having some boy troubles and well i need some advice please. i dated this guy a few months ago, and well he lives 2 hours away but now hes moving down 5 min away from me and he is living with his cousin, so he went down this weekend to bring some of his stuff and we hung out and we talked alot of things over and then the last day he was down we hung out all day with his cousin and his cousins bf and my friend and her bf well yea anyway we went hiking up the bluffs and we kissed and he fingered me and held me, but what im scared of is him still being a player cuz thats why we broke up cause I couldn't trust him living so far away cause I heard he was a player but he said he has changed. And he got a new gf and they broke up and he told me that when they were dating he thought about me alot and he said that he missed me and still does and that I was the best gf he has ever had and I just i feel right with him and happy but I really dont know if i should give it another shot when he moves down in a couple of weeks, so please help me out with this cuz im so lost. thanks much
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (19 May 2009):
 hun in your heart of hearts do you really honestly think he has changed?do you really think he isn't a player any more?i mean he was before why does that mean he's not still?only you can really tell whether or not he has changed.it's up to you to do whatever you feel is best for yourself.whether you know you can trust him or whether you know you can't.don't rush into anything take time you learn what he's like now and compare but do what you feel is better and more right for you.as i always say to people why go back with an ex? there was a reason you guys ended and that'll never go away i mean you can't go back to the past so carry on with the future but that's just my oppinion it's up to you to do whatever you feel is right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): According to Dr Phil, who I respect:
"The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior!"
I kept that quote on my refridgerator for two years! And it helped me get over my ex!
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