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writes: My bf and I have been in a relationship for the past 8 years and we are very possesive but he recently admitted that on screen that is tv or on net if there's a nude women he may be tempted to see that as it's a male tendency to see nude women... so I want to know that if on the screen he is tempted to see breasts and nude girls so in real life too he would be tempted to see all that? His eyes would go on busty women and scanty clothed women? Kindly answer as I am really depressed with this feeling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): i love my bf more than any body even more than myself whatever i did till date i did it for him and never looked at any other guy or felt like looking at nude men even...my bf is the only person in my mind..since paet 8years and i have no inclinatons for any male celebrity also i feel my bf is only my hero i am least interested towards any other man..i am very beautiful rich women and my bf is average looking man and short heighted than me and fianacialy week but i neverever felt bad though my friends wondered how could i select such a guy,but i just wanted true love.hhe cares a lot for me, we are even physical.since 8 years i never even though after loving him so much he could have an urge to look at any other women,recently he admitted that its a males tendency that they like to see nude women and seeing on the screen that is net and tv is ok for him as he doesnot do it in real life and ays he loves me only.then how can feel like seeing other nude women after seeing my body?what is love then?whats the rationality of marriage?why didi i sacrifised my parents,money all for him?is it worth sacrifising all for him?when all men are same and theres no love then i should marry some handsome rich guy?i am really disheartened what is true love please guys do reply...i need the answer its suffocating me and depressing me ...when he cared and cries for me so much then how can he say that love is caring and tendency to see nude women on screen doesnt make differnce in love.....that doesnt mean that if he sleeps with 100 women and care for me only and then say that its a male tndency but i care for u only and so i love you only...doesnt love mean that we are commited to each other and see each others body only,and theres a feeling of oneness attachment respect and so much of love.i feel as if he sleeeps with me only because he doesnt have any other option if he would get a chance he would sleep with those nude women on screen orelse why would he feel like seeing them?he ask me to cover myself properly and move out and doesnot want people to see me and touch me even he wouldnt like females touching and seeing my body when i go to parlor,then how can he say that he feels like seeing other nude women??please justify and advice me what to do i loved him like anything unable to live without him at the same time i am really hurted and dont feel like loving him...what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009): It is human nature to check out the opposite sex. That isn't to say we are all considering being unfaithful. Haven't you ever looked at a very handsome man and thought
"wow, he's hot?"
To censor your own ability to look at, to think, would to me, make it more of a temptation. Like walking through a bakery when your on a diet and trying not to look at all the goodies!
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