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writes:My boyfriend has a lady that is trying to get with him and he was honest enough to tell me. Now, how do I help him stop this woman from coming on to him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): Why would you want to? Others will always hit on our partners. This is life. Forget about it. Be glad your b/f told you.
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (19 May 2009):
 I'm not necessarily sure there's anything you can do about help him. If anything, it seems more like a battle of wills... and hopefully, your boyfriend will win and the other woman will simply give up.
Of course, there's always the "direct approach" (meaning your boyfriend tells this other woman to back off because he's in a committed relationship with you), but I don't really see anything you can do specifically. It would be on the rude side to confront her yourself and tell her off... So, all I see is that it's in his control on either telling her to back off or simply ignoring her advances.
Also, it seems that if he was honest enough to tell you, then you should trust in him that he's not going to acknowledge her or do anything to jeopardize your relationship.
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reader, Full moon temptress1  +, writes (19 May 2009):
I'm afraid you can't.Your boyfriend seems like an honest bloke.He should put her straight.
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